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i eat the stars: how to live fully and beautifully in a collapsing world, Sarah Wilson
Do you ever find yourself asking, "What on earth is happening to the world?"I know I do, despite my eternal optimism. So it was wonderful to attend a talk by Sarah Wilson in London last month, having just finished her latest book, ‘I Eat the Stars.’.
I've been a long-time admirer of Sarah's work — for the depth of her research and the catharsis I find in her words.
The premise of ‘I Eat the Stars’ is both confronting and strangely reassuring: we aren't simply living through a series of unrelated crises. We're witnessing the collapse of complex systems.
Climate crisis. Rising authoritarianism. AI disruption. Economic inequality. Political instability. Social fragmentation.
It can feel like everything is happening all at once because, in many ways, it is.
Drawing on conversations with more than 200 philosophers, scientists, economists, historians, poets and spiritual leaders, Sarah puts language to something many of us have sensed but struggled to articulate: that something is deeply, structurally wrong with the systems we've built.
One chapter that particularly stayed with me explored the concept of "Moloch" — the idea that so much of what we're participating in, or calling “innovation" or "evolution", is actually a collective race to the bottom, where so much is destroyed under the guise of progress.
We see Moloch everywhere:
• Algorithms optimised for attention rather than value.
• Growth pursued at any cost.
• AI advancement without fully reckoning with its human and environmental consequences.
• Consumerism fuelled by endless comparison and overconsumption.
• Political systems incentivising division over collaboration.
But surprisingly, this isn't a book about despair. It's a book about agency.
The real problem Sarah is addressing isn't the state of the world — it's our paralysis in the face of it.
We might search for villains to blame, but in reality, this moment belongs to all of us. We all play a role.
She likens humanity to adolescence: we've built incredible things without fully understanding the consequences. The next chapter of our story requires us to grow up — to take responsibility, reclaim our agency, and consciously choose how we want to shape what comes next.
It also raises an important leadership question:
If growth-at-all-costs is part of the problem, what does responsible leadership look like today — and into the future?
Perhaps the future isn't about pursuing more growth, but creating more meaningful, reparative progress.
‘I Eat the Stars’ is incredibly well researched, thought-provoking, and at times deeply uncomfortable to read. But ultimately, it's about living fully — "the great homecoming", as Sarah calls it.
I'd highly recommend it to anyone trying to make sense of the complexity of the world we're living in — and how to respond without losing their humanity (or their mind!).
A timely read.
Jacqui x
All About Love, bell hooks
I recently spent nine days in Majorca with one of my dear friends, and as always, I had books with me.
I actually have a rule with myself when I go on holiday. I'm not allowed to read entirely self-development books. I obviously love them, but I also know that if I only read books about work, growth and psychology, I never really switch off. So I always make myself read at least one novel too.
This time, the novel was... okay.
But I also finally read 'All About Love' by bell hooks.
Some of you might have read it already. It's a bit of a classic. I'd always assumed it would be mostly about romantic love, but it's actually about love in all its forms.
One idea she talks about that has stayed with me ever since, is the concept of "Right Livelihood." (Such an apt way of phrasing it, I think)
She writes about the idea that the work we do is actually one of the foundations of self-love.
When we're doing work that doesn't feel right for us, it doesn't just impact how we feel about our jobs. Over time, it can gradually erode our self-esteem, our confidence, and even our capacity to love.
I found that such an interesting perspective.
I've definitely had moments in jobs where I haven’t always loved my lived experience of work. Usually it’s been more to do with the politics than the work itself.
But looking back, I think there's a lot of truth in what bell hooks is saying.
We show up differently when we're doing work that feels meaningful. Work that energises us. Work that feels aligned with who we are. It's much harder to bring our best selves — to work, to our relationships and to ourselves — when we're spending most of our week doing work that doesn't.
The idea of right livelihood is beautifully simple: find work that feels meaningful. Work you care about. Work you genuinely love.
The hard part is that so many of us stay stuck in misaligned roles because of security, stability, obligation or fear. All completely understandable reasons.
But bell hooks makes the case that right livelihood is worth taking a risk on. Because until we take that chance, we don't get to experience what it feels like to spend our lives doing work that truly fits us.
That really resonated with me. Particularly since I took the leap of faith into entrepreneurship.
Gallop suggests around 80% of people are disengaged or passive at work. It made me wonder how many people have never experienced what bell hooks calls 'right livelihood.'
So I'm curious...
Do you feel like you're living your right livelihood?
And if not, what would right livelihood look like for you as the person you are today?
New and Noteworthy
Facing Madame X, Jamie Rose
Jamie Rose is an author and coach mentored by legendary therapist Phil Stutz, the New York Times bestselling co-author of The Tools, and subject of the hit Netflix documentary, Stutz. Now, Rose brings a woman’s perspective to his work with Facing Madame X: The Tools for Women.
One of Stutz’s main teachings is that everyone has an inner enemy called “Part X”—the voice that says you’re not enough, and you’ll never succeed, so don’t even try. For women, these messages are made more potent by a patriarchy that declares that they’re not pretty, thin, young, smart, or polite as they could or should be. Rose labels the specifically pernicious way this “X” force attacks women as “Madame X.”
Facing Madame X teaches readers how to identify and neutralize the inner saboteur that has suppressed, disconnected, or overpowered their potential. Through case studies of her clients and her own personal journey, Rose helps women to hear and trust their inner voice and connect to the archetypical spirit that is their birthright—the divine feminine—a powerful, creatively benevolent force that will help them reach their full, uniquely beautiful potential and create the life that always felt just beyond their grasp.